Everyday decisions
Think through a relationship decision
Organize emotions, recurring patterns, needs, safety, repair attempts, and future compatibility without pretending AI replaces human support.
The basic idea
Relationship questions often arrive as a long account of frustration. That context can be useful, but the council should distinguish a bad incident from a repeated pattern, identify each person’s needs, and avoid diagnosing people it has never assessed.
Ask whether to continue, pause, or end a relationship after describing the recurring conflict, efforts at repair, shared commitments, boundaries, and what a workable relationship would require.
How to do it
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Describe specific behaviors and patterns rather than attaching clinical labels.
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Name your nonnegotiable needs, boundaries, and evidence of change or non-change.
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Ask models to consider repair, separation, counseling, and a time-bounded evaluation where appropriate.
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Use the map to distinguish emotional pain, practical entanglement, compatibility, trust, and safety.
What to watch for
- AI cannot know the other person’s private intentions.
- If there is abuse, coercion, stalking, or immediate danger, prioritize qualified local help and safety planning.
- Do not share intimate information you do not have permission to disclose.
What a useful result looks like
The result can widen the options and clarify boundaries, but the user remains responsible for the decision and for obtaining human support when needed.